Ut Oh! Controversy! Proceed with caution, there
is an opinion ahead.
My thoughts are mostly about "ownership" or perceived notions of
"ownership" regarding beadweaving. That should scare quite a
few peeps away! LOL
Having been online for almost 20 years now, joining in with
groups, newsgroups, email lists, online forums, you name it - that have
anything to do with beading, mostly because I LOVE beaders and hanging out with
them, and sharing ideas and oohing and aahing over other peoples beautiful
creations, I have also managed to hear 1000 times, “I learned to bead from my
Grandmother, Mom, Aunt, etc.”.
I did, too!
And then I learned more
stitches from my SIL, and even more from the Native American folks in my area
who shared their knowledge freely with me….because that’s what you do.
You share what you know with others.
Especially in beadweaving.
It is how skills have been passed down from
one generation to the next.
In history, most arts and crafts or even artistic skills, such as lampworking
from Italy, or the Matryoshka dolls from Russia, or German brewery, or Native
American basketry, Brazilian Woodworking, Japanese Origami…. I could go on and
on, had skills that were passed down from generation to generation.
Many times with no written
documentation.
Each successive
generation was just shown how to create something and many times they added
their own unique style or even additions or simplifications to the completed
work.
Sometimes they were closely guarded
family or cottage secrets, but many times, in order for them to continue or
flourish they were shared outside of the family.
In some cases it was to ensure the
preservation of a technique, in other cases it was to ensure the industry did
not die out.
And many times these skills
were given freely to the most eager ones who wanted to learn.
This is not to say that charging to teach shouldn’t happen.
Obviously I am not against that either as I
do it myself, and as often as I can manage.
But I also try to share things freely as well.
I have an obligation to pass on what I was
taught by some.
It was part of the
condition of them sharing so freely with me that I would also share freely when
asked.
I have an easy vehicle for that
as I’ve owned a brick and mortar bead store for 28 years.
I cannot even begin to count the amount of
times I’ve shown someone how to make a proper loop on a headpin, or how to keep
their tension even in beadweaving, or how to get your knots secure on a strand
of pearls, or what the proper thread path is for Peyote stitch….just because
they came up to me and asked.
I also
cannot express how fulfilling it is to me to be able to pass along what I was
taught to another.
And in thinking about what is, or in my “opinion” should be shared freely, it
brings me right back to the impetus for the blog post.
Bead weaving stitches.
My personal opinion….they don’t belong to
you!
Even if you “think” you came up
with some unique thread path all on your very own, chances are you are sharing
it with some other mind somewhere on this planet.
Now, the design you create with that stitch….all
yours.
Any words or illustrations or
images you may create in order to share or teach that to someone else….ALL
YOURS!
But the course that the needle
and thread are taking through those bead holes??
How would you ever have a way of knowing that
it has not been done before?
I mean, it
could have been a mistake I made just yesterday.
Or it could be something a Zulu tribesman is
fine tuning right at this very moment, or it could be something a Pomo Indian
perfected 100 years ago.
You don’t
know.
I don’t know.
We have no way of ever truly knowing.
So let it go.
Stop with the Mine, Mine, Mine attitude about it.
It makes you look petty, and frankly rather
selfish and snide as well.
Do you ever see a knitter talking about a stitch being hers? A master tailor
saying those fine crossed over stitches belong to him?
A fiber artist claiming stake to combing two
fibers into a beautiful knot?
Heck
no!
They are not vain enough to presume
they’re the only living soul since the dawn of man to tie a freaking knot in
some thread and you shouldn’t be either!
I am not saying that every single one of us needs to share what we know
freely.
I will say that I enjoy doing it
as often as I can so maybe try it once in a while and see if it fills a space
in your heart as well.
What I’m truly
trying to say here is that if you let go you will be amazed at what comes your
way.
If you share just a little you will
gain more than you can possibly contain.
If you stop with the notion that something is Mine, Mine, Mine and
realize that is pretty close to impossible and instead focus your energy and
attention on what you can create with those thread paths, not only will your
life be more peaceful but you will also have opened your mind to more knowledge
than you can possibly imagine.
Let it go….it was never yours to begin with.
With respect,
Happy Beading All!